Does the above title or statement sound familiar? It’s a statement that I knew well and it wasn’t until recently that I finally understood the impact it has had on my life. What I didn’t know was that this statement was ruling my life. You see before I learned about the Law of Attraction I would say this all the time, “How am I going to pay this.” It became a habit and it was passed down to me by my parents. It was what they learned.
Look at it another way say your car just broke down and you are living from pay check to pay check what would you say? How am I going to pay for this? If your pet all of a sudden got really sick what would you say? How am I going to pay for this? If your furnace blew up what would you say? How am I going to pay for this?
You might be wondering why this is important or you might be thinking “so we all say that.” This is important because this is a fear statement and fear attracts more fear (Like attracts like). It stops the flow of abundance into our lives. Though it is true you must know how you are going to pay for something but attaching the fear and the worry with it stops the Law of Attraction from working in your favour. One of the steps to Law of Attraction is not to worry or concern yourself with “How” things are going to happen, just believe they will. You want the flow of abundance into your life and the above statement will stop it cold.
Now how do you go about changing this, the first thing is to release the thought pattern that created it and know that once the abundance flows “how you are going to pay for it” will take care of itself. Then release the fear and the worry and know that you are taken care of. Next ask whatever your belief system is whether it is God, the Source, Universe, Goddess, etc… ask them to intervene on your behalf and help you find a way to pay for this bill. Lastly believe that things will work out. Once you get into the habit of doing this then the old habit of fear and worry will fade. To help you with this you can use E.F.T. (Emotional Freedom Technique or Tapping) it will help you overcome and release the emotions behind this issue.
Sharon Lorraine Boon
Founder, Passage To Yourself